What it takes to be a grey man in the everyday world.
There is a saying that goes, “In the dark, all cats are grey.” This phrase is often used to describe someone who is difficult to identify because they blend into the background. The term can also be used metaphorically to describe someone who is unremarkable and doesn’t stand out in any way. In a world where everything seems uncertain, it might be helpful to know what kind of skills and abilities a “grey man” would possess. What knowledge skills and abilities would help him survive in an everyday world or in a world that has gone mad? Let’s take a look.
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The grey man philosophy is the idea of blending in with your surroundings and not standing out to avoid being targeted. This can be applied to everyday life by dressing and acting like those around you and not doing anything that would make you stand out from the crowd. In an extreme event, such as a natural disaster or a terrorist attack, being a grey man can help you to avoid being targeted by looters or other criminals.
There are several ways you can apply the grey man philosophy to your everyday life. One way is to dress like those around you. If you live in a casual area, dress in casual clothes. If you live in a more formal area, dress in more formal clothes. Another way to blend in is to act like those around you. Be polite and respectful, and don’t do anything that would draw attention to yourself.
Benefits and risks of being a grey man
Some benefits of being a grey man include being less likely to be targeted by criminals or other dangerous people, being less likely to be noticed in a crowd, and being less likely to be singled out for special treatment (good or bad). Additionally, blending in can help you to better observe your surroundings and gather information without drawing attention to yourself.
However, there are some risks of being a grey man includes not being noticed by people who could help you in an emergency and not standing out enough to be remembered by witnesses if something happens to you. Additionally, if you are in an extreme event and need to evacuate quickly, blending in too much could make it difficult for rescuers to find you. Remember, everything is situationally dependent.
There are several ways you can stay safe as a grey man. First, always be aware of your surroundings and who is around you. Second, trust your gut instinct – if something feels off or dangerous, it probably is. Third, have an exit plan ready in case you need to quickly get away from someone or something. Finally, carry a self-defense weapon with you for protection.
The grey man in the everyday world
Today we are going to discuss what it takes to be the grey man in the everyday world: Knowledge, Skills, and Abilities (KSA); things the grey does during “normal activities”, how he should carry himself during normal daily activities, his demeanor, communications, mannerisms, interaction with others, at work and home; how he should be with his family, his wife, children, parents, siblings, and friends; his involvement in local community organizations; the type of vehicle he may own and what he should or shouldn’t carry or be noticeable in the vehicle; items he should have in his everyday-carry bag; things he should and shouldn’t do on social media, and how to maintain operational security (OPSEC).
So, if you’re looking for ways to keep yourself safe and out of the government’s line of sight, read on. Below, we’ll discuss some of the things you can do to become the grey man.
How to Become the Grey Man
The first step to becoming the grey man is understanding what he is. As we mentioned above, the grey man is someone who knows how to blend in with his surroundings. He does this by being aware of his clothing, his body language, and his interactions with others.
The grey man also has a keen understanding of both the physical and digital worlds. He knows how to operate in both spheres with a sense of purpose and intention. In short, he knows how to stay safe and keep his head down – even when the world around him is crumbling.
To become the grey man, you’ll need to learn how to do all of these things. Fortunately, we’ve got you covered. Below, we’ll discuss some of the things you can do to become invisible in plain sight.
Grey Man Knowledge, Skills, and Abilities (KSA)
The ‘grey man’ should have the proper knowledge, skills, and abilities (KSA) so that he can protect himself and his loved ones in case of an emergency. He should also be able to identify potential threats and know how to respond to them. The term can apply to both men and women, but it is most often used in reference to men. The following are just a few of the things you should know and be able to do if you want to become the grey man:
1. A grey man should have a deep understanding of human psychology and be able to manipulate people’s emotions.
2. He should be highly skilled in hand-to-hand combat and be able to defend himself against any opponent.
3. He should be proficient in a variety of weapons, both lethal and non-lethal.
4. He should be able to disappear into any environment, no matter how crowded or chaotic.
5. He should have a comprehensive knowledge of stealth and evasion techniques.
6. He should be able to think on his feet and come up with creative solutions in high-pressure situations.
7. He should be able to stay calm under pressure and maintain his composure even in the face of danger.
8. He should have a strong will and be able to resist any form of interrogation or coercion.
9. He should be able to maintain his cover even under intense scrutiny.
10. He should be able to remain undetected even in the most heavily monitored environments.
The grey man in a non-emergency and non-threatening environment
The grey man should act differently during everyday normal non-emergency and non-threatening environments than he would during an emergency or threatening environment. He should go about his normal routine (changing it up once in a while) while remaining vigilant. The following are just a few of the routines a grey man follows during these times:
1. Wake up: Wake up early in the morning, before the sun rises if possible. This will allow you to get a jump on the day and get ahead of any potential threats or emergencies that may occur.
2. Eat breakfast: Start your day with a nutritious breakfast to fuel your body and mind.
3. Exercise: Take some time to exercise, even if it’s just a brisk walk around the block. Keeping your body active will help you stay alert and ready for anything.
4. Check the news and internet for updates: Stay up-to-date on what’s happening in the world around you. Knowing what’s going on will help you be prepared for anything that might happen.
5. Work on a project or task: Use your time wisely by working on something productive. This could be anything from going to your normal job to working on a home improvement project to learning a new skill.
6. Take a break and eat lunch: Take a break in the middle of the day to relax and refuel with a healthy lunch.
7. Check the news and internet for updates: Stay up-to-date on what’s happening in the world around you. Knowing what’s going on will help you be prepared for anything that might happen.
8. Work on a project or task: Use your time wisely by working on something productive. This could be anything from your normal job to working on a home improvement project to learning a new skill.
9. Take a break and eat dinner: Take a break in the evening to relax and refuel with a healthy dinner.
10. Go to bed: Get a good night’s sleep so you can be rested and ready for whatever the next day brings.
How to carry yourself during normal daily activities
The way a grey man carries himself during normal daily activities should not vary too much from one day to another. The goal is to be as unremarkable and forgettable as possible while being someone who is respected. The following are just a few of the ways a grey man carries himself during normal daily activities; demeanor, communications, mannerisms, and interaction with others, at work and home:
1. The grey man should always be aware of his surroundings and who is around him, paying special attention to those who may not have his best interests at heart.
2. He should always be calm and in control, even in the most difficult or stressful situations.
3. The grey man should never show anger or aggression, no matter what the provocation.
4. He must maintain a low profile, keeping a low profile both physically and verbally.
5. He must be discreet and prudent with his words, choosing them carefully and only speaking when it is absolutely necessary.
6. The grey man must always be polite and respectful to others, even if they do not deserve it.
7. He should dress conservatively and without ostentation, avoiding flashy or gaudy clothing whenever possible.
8. He must avoid drawing attention to himself through any overt actions or behaviors.
9. The grey man should never be involved in any illegal activities, no matter how minor they may seem.
10. He must always be prepared for the worst and have a plan for what to do if things go wrong.
11. The grey man should never give up or give in, no matter how difficult the situation may be.
How to interact with your family and friends
A grey man should interact with his family in a way that is respectful and humble. He should be supportive and helpful, but not overbearing. He should be a good listener and be able to offer advice when needed, but not force his opinions on others. He should be able to compromise and negotiate with others, but not back down from his convictions. In short, a grey man should be someone who is diplomatic, level-headed, and considerate. The following are just a few of the ways a grey man carries himself with his family; wife, children, parents, siblings, friends etc…
1. The grey man should be at home with his family and friends, being a positive force in their lives.
2. He should be a loving husband to his wife and a supportive father to his children.
3. He should cherish his relationships with his parents, siblings, and friends.
4. He should always put his family and friends first, before anything else.
5. In the event of a SHTF scenario, the grey man should be able to step up and take charge, while still maintaining a low profile.
6. He should be prepared for anything, but not appear to be paranoid or obsessed with preparedness.
7. The grey man should be calm and level-headed in any situation, never losing his cool.
8. He should always think before he acts, and consider the possible repercussions of his actions.
9. The grey man should be prepared to defend himself and his family, if necessary.
10. He should always be ready and willing to help others, even if they don’t know it.
How to engage with the local community
Generally speaking, the grey man should try to get involved in local community organizations. This will help him to network with other members of the community, and gain a better understanding of the local area. Additionally, it can also help the grey man to build up a positive reputation within the community, which can be beneficial during difficult situations. The following are a few ways the grey man can be a productive member of his community:
1. The grey man is a member of the local community organization.
2. The grey man helps to organize events for the local community organization.
3. The grey man donates money to the local community organization.
4. The grey man volunteers his time to help the local community organization.
5. The grey man is a member of the local community organization’s Board of Directors.
6. The grey man helps to fundraise for the local community organization.
7. The grey man is a member of the local community organization’s planning committee.
8. The grey man helps to promote the local community organization’s events.
9. The grey man is a member of the local community organization’s marketing committee.
10. The grey man helps to distribute the local community organization’s materials.
How to engage on social media
The grey man should not do or say certain things on social media because it will make him stand out and increase the chances of getting caught. For example, he should not post anything that is specific to his location or that could be traced back to him. He should also avoid making any posts that could be interpreted as suspicious or incriminating. Additionally, the grey man should take care to avoid any online activity that could raise red flags. Some things he should not post:
1. Do not overshare personal information
2. Do not post inflammatory or controversial content
3. Do not post anything that could be construed as rude or offensive
4. Do not post any pictures that could be compromising
5. Do not keep your profile updated and current
6. Do not use a professional-sounding name or moniker
7. Make sure your privacy settings are locked down tight
8. Be aware of the fake profiles that may try to befriend you
9. Avoid posting about politics or religion
10. Do not make your page a public forum for griping or complaining
11. Keep in mind that social media is a tool that can be used against you
12. Be careful what you click on – some links may be malicious
13. Do not engage in online arguments or flame wars
14. Do not post anything that could get you in trouble at work
15. Be aware that your employer may be monitoring your social media activity
16. Do not post anything that could jeopardize your safety or the safety of others
17. Be aware of your surroundings and who may be watching you
18. Do not use social media to plan or coordinate illegal activities
19. Do not post anything that could get you in legal trouble
20. Do not post sensitive or confidential information
21. Do not post specific locations
22 Do not post suspicious or incriminating posts
23. Do not post anything that could raise red flags online
Always being aware of operational security (OPSEC)
The grey man should be concerned about operational security (OPSEC) and not communicate to others outside of his immediate circle or on a need-to-know basis because it is important to keep sensitive information confidential to prevent any potential security breaches. By communicating with others indiscriminately, the grey man may unwittingly give away sensitive information that could jeopardize the success of the operation. Additionally, communicating on a need-to-know basis helps to ensure that only those who require access to certain information are privy to it, thus minimizing the risk of unauthorized individuals obtaining sensitive data. The grey man should be careful to ensure the following:
1. Do not communicate your personal information to anyone you do not trust implicitly
2. Do not share details about your family or friends with anyone
3. Do not talk about your work outside of the office, or in any public place
4. Avoid discussing political and religious views in public forums
5. Refrain from posting pictures of yourself or revealing too much personal information on social media
6. Keep conversations with other grey men limited to topics that are relevant to your mission or interests
7. Remember that everything you say can be used against you, so be mindful of what you reveal
8. Do not let anyone know your real name, age, or address
9. Be cautious when talking to strangers, and never give out more information than necessary
10. If you are captured or interrogated, do not reveal anything about your mission or fellow grey men
11. Avoid discussing upcoming plans or missions with anyone
12. If you are being followed, do not go home; instead, lose your pursuer.
13. Do not put anything in writing that could compromise your mission or identity
14. Do not use your real name when setting up social media accounts or email addresses
15. Use cash instead of credit cards or debit cards whenever possible
16. Do not carry any identifying documents on you unless absolutely necessary
17. Keep a low profile and do not draw attention to yourself
18. Remember that the less people know about you, the safer you will be.
19. Do not discuss your itinerary with anyone
20. Do not leave a paper trail; pay attention to your digital footprint as well
21. Do not use your regular phone or email for grey man business
22. Use strong passwords and encrypt all of your grey man communications
23. Be vigilant at all times and trust your gut instincts
24. If something feels wrong, it probably is
25. Always have an exit strategy and know how to disappear if necessary
Does the type of vehicle you drive really matter
Some believe that the type of vehicle may play a role in how easily the grey man can blend in. For example, a grey man driving a beat-up old car may be less likely to stand out than someone driving a brand-new sports car. However, grey men drive all types of vehicles. Ultimately, it is up to the individual grey man to decide what type of vehicle is best for him or her that will blend in the best in their surroundings. The following are just a couple of typical vehicle choices:
1. A reliable midrange sedan that can blend in with the locals
2. An reliable anonymous looking SUV for when more space is needed
3. A smaller car for when discretion is key
4. A motorcycle for travel and quick getaways
5. A truck for when you need to haul gear or supplies
What should you carry in your vehicle
There are a few reasons why a grey man would carry items in his vehicle that could be useful in an everyday carry or SFTF situation. One reason is that he wants to be prepared for any situation that may arise. Another reason is that he wants to avoid drawing attention to himself. By carrying items in a vehicle, he minimizes the chances of those items being noticed by others. The following are a few items everyone should carry in their vehicle:
1. A crowbar: A crowbar can be used for self-defense or to use as a tool.
2. A change of clothes: A change of clothes can be used if you need to blend in or if you get wet and need to change into dry clothes.
3. A first-aid kit: A first-aid kit is essential for any emergency situation.
4. A flashlight: A flashlight can be used to signal for help or to find your way in the dark.
5. A weapon: A weapon can be used for self-defense or to hunt for food. (optional)
6. A map: A map is essential for navigation and can help you find your way to safety.
7. Water: Water is essential for survival and you should always have plenty of it with you.
8. Food: Food is also essential for survival and you should always have enough with you to last a few days.
9. A plan: A plan is essential for any emergency situation. You should have a plan for where you will go and what you will do if a disaster or emergency occurs.
10. Jumper cables, Tow Straps and Shackles, Ratchet Straps, Toilet Paper/Paper Towels etc…
What to keep out of sight in your vehicle
A grey man is someone who tries to remain unnoticed and unseen in public. He wants to avoid drawing attention to himself from criminals and the authorities because it alleviates unwanted attention. If a criminal can’t see what the person has in their car, they can’t steal it. And if the authorities can’t see what the person is carrying, they won’t have a reason to detain or arrest them. The following are a few items you should ensure are not visible in your vehicle:
1. Weapons
2. A large quantity of cash
3. Prescription or other drugs
4. Expensive jewelry or electronics
5. Sensitive documents
6. Bumper stickers that identify you as a member of a political or social group, “I support our troops” ribbon, large CrossFit decal on the back window, “My kid is an honor student at _____” sticker
7. Anything that would make you stand out in a crowd
8. Anything that would make you a target for police attention
9. Anything that would make you a target for government surveillance
10. Anything that would make you a target for theft or violence
Should you have an everyday-carry bag
The grey man should carry an everyday-carry bag because it is a good way to keep all of his essential items together and easily accessible. A bag can also provide some protection for his belongings in case of an unexpected situation. Some potential items that the grey man may want to keep in his everyday-carry bag include:
1. A good knife – A grey man should always have a good quality knife on him. It can be used for self-defense, opening boxes, and a variety of other tasks.
2. A flashlight – A grey man should always have a small flashlight on him. Flashlights are useful for seeing in the dark, finding your way around in a power outage, and can even be used as a weapon in some situations.
3. A multitool – A grey man should always have a small multitool on him. This is an extremely versatile tool that can be used for everything from tightening screws to cutting through rope.
4. A fire starter – A grey man should always have a fire starter on him. Fire starters are useful for starting fires in an emergency situation, or simply for lighting a campfire.
5. A map and compass – A grey man should always have a map and compass on him. These are essential for navigation, especially if you find yourself in an unfamiliar area.
6. A first aid kit – A grey man should always have a small first aid kit on him. This can be used to treat minor injuries, and could potentially save your life in a more serious situation.
7. Water and food – A grey man should always have water and food on him. Water is essential for survival, and food will give you the energy you need to keep going in an emergency situation.
8. Clothing – A grey man should always have extra clothing on him. This can be used to protect you from the elements, or simply to keep you warm in an emergency situation.
9. shelter – A grey man should always have some form of shelter with him. This could be a tarp, a tent, or even just a blanket. Having shelter will protect you from the elements and can potentially save your life in an emergency situation.
10. A way to communicate – A grey man should always have a way to communicate with the outside world. This could be a cell phone, a radio, or even just a whistle. Having a way to communicate will allow you to call for help in an emergency situation, or simply stay in touch with loved ones.
11. Firearm(s) and Ammunition (optional) – In some cases, a grey man may find it necessary to arm themselves for self-defense. While it is not always advisable to carry a weapon, doing so may be the difference between life and death in a dangerous situation.
12. Hygiene items – A grey man should always have some form of hygiene items with him. This could be toilet paper, a toothbrush, or even just some hand sanitizer.
Urban environment everyday carry bag
There are a few reasons why a grey man might carry different items in his everyday-carry bag for a city / urban environment because of the increased security risks associated with cities. One reason is that the items he carries might be less visible or noticeable in a city setting. For example, he might carry pepper spray to protect himself from attackers, or he might carry a concealed firearm to protect himself from criminals. Items that a grey man might carry in his everyday-carry bag for a city / urban environment:
1. A knife or blade for self-defense
2. A sturdy backpack to carry belongings in
3. A dark hooded sweatshirt and sweatpants to wear in case of confrontation
4. A hat or bandanna to conceal identity
5. Sunglasses to avoid detection
6. Maps of the city and surrounding areas
7. A cellphone with a charged battery
8. Money in various denominations
9. Identification documents
10. A passport and visa (if necessary)
11. A small flashlight
12. A whistle to signal for help
13. A first-aid kit
14. Water and non-perishable food items
15. A multi-purpose tool
16. Firearm (optional)
17. Ammunition (optional)
18. Extra clothes and shoes
19. Hygiene items
20. A small notebook and pen
21. A laptop or other portable electronics and charging devices (optional)
Do you need to have a trauma kit or first aid kit
The grey man should have a first-aid kit or a life-saving or trauma kit in his everyday-carry bag and vehicle because it can help him to stay safe in a dangerous situation. If he is injured, he will be able to treat his injuries himself, which can help him to stay safe until help arrives. Some items that should be included in a grey man’s first-aid kit are:
1. IFAK – including Tourniquet, Quick Clotting Gauze, Israeli Bandage, Scissors etc…
2. Benedryl
3. Bandages
4. Sterile pads
5. Antibiotic ointment
6. Tweezers
7. Pain medication
8. Safety pins
9. Sanitizer/Soap
10. Non-latex gloves
The true grey man lifestyle is not for everyone; it requires a high level of dedication and commitment but if you are willing to make the sacrifices, it can be immensely rewarding and remember, the grey man is always watching.
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